We must always keep working on ours weaknesses to develop our personality, knowledge and skills.
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1. Identify Weaknesses
To build a confident and impressive personality, you first need to identify the areas that you will need to work on the most. Is it the way you look, dress, talk, or work that you are not satisfied with? Do you feel you can manage your time better? Are you not happy with your posture? You must be honest with yourself when identifying your limitations. Remember that you are never going to share it with anyone.
2. Choose Methods to Stay Motivated
After you have identified the areas that need the most work on, choose methods to maintain your determination. Even though at the beginning you might not feel the need to motivate yourself, you will find your enthusiasm dwindling with time. To avoid that, you must choose methods to keep yourself motivated. It can be a motivational song, conversations with a person who motivates you, a video clip, motivational quotes, or anything that you think works best to keep you motivated. For best results, switch between various methods of motivation.
3. Set Time for the Improvement
Improvement can only be achieved if you practice. You will need to devote time to your goal every day. A good method to do that is to create a routine, a pattern that you must follow each day. Even if you cannot practice every day from say 10 to 11 in the morning, make sure that you give half-an-hour or an hour to self-development every day, be it at night, in the morning or in the afternoon.
4. Pick the Most Enjoyable Activity
Depending on which area of your personality you are working on, you must pick activities for improvement that you enjoy doing. For instance, if you have chosen to improve your way of speaking, give yourself a variety of methods to improve your speech, such as audio recordings, reading aloud, taking language lessons, acting parts, etc.
Make learning fun otherwise it will be difficult to keep doing it every day. At the same time, give your specified number of hours to it ever day, whether you feel like practicing or not. Within a month, you will notice improvement.
5. Use Visualisation
See yourself with an improved personality. Imagine yourself without the weaknesses that you are working on. When you visualise, you begin to believe that it is possible to achieve what you see in your mind. Once you begin to believe that you can achieve it, your journey to self-improvement will become much easier, as you will feel motivated to work towards it.
Apply these steps to overcome your specific limitations and you will be successful in permanently removing them from your life. Planning and sticking to the routine are the two most important factors in accomplishing goals, personal or professional. Begin working on yourself and you will be surprised by how much it impacts your life.
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